{"id":1933,"date":"2011-09-22T16:03:29","date_gmt":"2011-09-22T20:03:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lifewithhappiness.com\/?p=1933"},"modified":"2018-10-02T13:36:48","modified_gmt":"2018-10-02T17:36:48","slug":"dont-use-these-four-dirty-words-at-work","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/theexecutivehappinesscoach.com\/2011\/09\/dont-use-these-four-dirty-words-at-work\/","title":{"rendered":"Don&#039;t Use these Four Dirty Words at Work!"},"content":{"rendered":"<h3><span style=\"color: #9400d3\"><strong>Here are four words that you should not tolerate in the workplace: <\/strong><\/span><\/h3>\n<h3><strong> <\/strong><\/h3>\n<h3><strong><span style=\"color: #9400d3\">FAKE<\/span><\/strong><strong> <\/strong>\u2013 this is toxic for a leader.\u00a0 If you do not show up in an Authentic way, people will sense it.\u00a0 Be genuine.<\/h3>\n<h3><strong><span style=\"color: #9400d3\">FEAR <\/span>\u2013 <\/strong>when we are uncomfortable, we tend to withdraw.\u00a0 Leaders must step into the DIScomfort of difficult conversations, doing what is right in the face of their fear.<\/h3>\n<h3><strong> <\/strong><\/h3>\n<h3><strong><span style=\"color: #9400d3\">FINE<\/span> <\/strong>\u2013 is the enemy of great.\u00a0 When someone tells you they are \u201cfine,\u201d sit down and find out what\u2019s wrong, or what you can do to help them move forward.\u00a0 If the project status is \u201cfine,\u201d seek what will make it fabulous or excellent!<\/h3>\n<h3><strong> <\/strong><\/h3>\n<h3><strong><span style=\"color: #9400d3\">FAIL<\/span> \u2013 <\/strong>if you cannot tolerate failure, you stifle learning.\u00a0 Give permission &#8212; to self and others &#8212; to fail forward.<\/h3>\n<h3><strong> <\/strong><\/h3>\n<h3><span style=\"color: #9400d3\"><strong>Remember, Leadership is not about a title: <\/strong><\/span>Anyone can be a leader who refuses to accept from their teammates anything less than their best &#8212; and who allows people to fail as part of the learning process!<\/h3>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here are four words that you should not tolerate in the workplace: FAKE \u2013 this is toxic for a leader.\u00a0 If you do not show up in an Authentic way, people will sense it.\u00a0 Be genuine. 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