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My eldest child, Kelly (a regular reader of this blog), has been bugging me since I started it, asking, \u201cwhen are you gonna write a column about ME?\u201d\u00a0 For a long time I put her off by pointing out that this is my professional blog, not personal.\u00a0 Well, since I recently wrote about BOTH of her brothers, I clearly can\u2019t use that excuse any more.\u00a0 So to keep peace in the family \ud83d\ude42\u00a0 I will write today\u2019s post about her.
\n\"kelly-headshot\"This is Kelly Smith Gibson.\u00a0 After graduating from the University of Notre Dame, she attended med school at the University of Pennsylvania in Philadelphia.\u00a0 She married a wonderful young man from Seattle in December 2007 in a ceremony that took place in the Basilica at the Notre Dame campus, which is where they met.
\nToday, she and Paul live nearby and Kelly is a first-year resident in an OB\/Gyn program that is run jointly by Metro General Hospital and the Cleveland Clinic.\u00a0 She delivers babies.\u00a0 Lots of babies.\u00a0 A lot of the babies she delivers are born to moms in high-risk pregnancy situations, like those who are very young, very old, and those who have diabetes or other complicating health conditions.\u00a0 Metro boasts one of the finest high-risk pregnancy units in the country, and I know that Kelly is very proud to be a part of the team there.
\nNot all is a bed of roses for Kelly.\u00a0 Students who graduate from Med School in the United States carry a huge debt load.\u00a0 I get nosebleeds just thinking about how much money she owes in student loans.\u00a0 Residents work 80-90 hours a week \u2013 including a LOT of nights and 24-hour weekend shifts — for not a lot of money.\u00a0 And she has to study constantly \u2013 huge big textbooks and journals and new research into exciting topics like female cancers and rates of morbidity for high-risk pregnancies, and so on.\u00a0 And hubby Paul just got laid off from his job last week as an Actuarial Analyst for a consulting firm.\u00a0 And the liability insurance premiums for Obstetricians is a scary number \u2013 OB\u2019s have to deliver a ton of babies each year just to pay for their insurance.
\nAND she and Paul are a very happy and engaging couple whom my wife and feel blessed to count as our friends.
\nSo, Kelly, this is your blog post.\u00a0 Now the whole world (of my subscribers, anyway) know what a great person you are and how proud I am of you and your accomplishments.
\nCan we be done, now?
\nAnd NO, I\u2019m not writing a post about your dog. \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

My eldest child, Kelly (a regular reader of this blog), has been bugging me since I started it, asking, \u201cwhen are you gonna write a column about ME?\u201d\u00a0 For a long time I put her off by pointing out that this is my professional blog, not personal.\u00a0 Well, since I recently wrote about BOTH of … Read more<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":5789,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[119,228,58,47,50],"tags":[120,239,236,96,240],"yoast_head":"\nHappiness is Watching Your Child Succeed, Part 3 - The Executive Happiness Coach\u00ae<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/theexecutivehappinesscoach.com\/2009\/05\/happiness-is-watching-your-child-succeed-part-3\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Happiness is Watching Your Child Succeed, Part 3 - The Executive Happiness Coach\u00ae\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"My eldest child, Kelly (a regular reader of this blog), has been bugging me since I started it, asking, \u201cwhen are you gonna write a column about ME?\u201d\u00a0 For a long time I put her off by pointing out that this is my professional blog, not personal.\u00a0 Well, since I recently wrote about BOTH of ... 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