{"id":866,"date":"2009-05-18T22:11:12","date_gmt":"2009-05-19T02:11:12","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.lifewithhappiness.com\/?p=866"},"modified":"2018-10-02T13:36:54","modified_gmt":"2018-10-02T17:36:54","slug":"mood-and-language-which-comes-first","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/theexecutivehappinesscoach.com\/2009\/05\/mood-and-language-which-comes-first\/","title":{"rendered":"Mood and Language: which comes first?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In a recent coaching teleclass a participant asked, \u201cis it our mood that creates our language, or is it the words and stories we use that create our mood?\u201d\u00a0 She was looking for a neat and crisp definition of how people work.<br \/>\nIt ain\u2019t that simple.\u00a0 Figuring out how people work is like solving the Chicken or Egg puzzle \u2013 which came first?<br \/>\nThe answer to the above question is not either\/or; it\u2019s Yes.\u00a0 Both.<br \/>\n<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-870\" title=\"Ontological Model\" src=\"https:\/\/theexecutivehappinesscoach.com\/files\/2009\/05\/venn-bel2-300x218.jpg\" alt=\"venn-bel2\" width=\"208\" height=\"151\" \/>Our head (and our language and stories) and our heart (our emotions\/reactions) and our physical self (behavior, non-verbals) are inextricably connected \u2013 each affects the other two.<br \/>\nThe mood or emotion we\u2019re in affects our behavior and it influences what we say and what we think.\u00a0 Our thoughts\/language lead to the emotion we\u2019re in and also affect our behavior.\u00a0 And of course our behavior leads to consequences that subsequently influence our reactions and stories.<br \/>\nA recent comic strip illustrated this principle beautifully.\u00a0 It\u2019s called Non Sequitur (distributedby Universal Press Syndicate).\u00a0 Some context is important.\u00a0 The main character, Danae, is a very wise 10-year old girl who wears a black T-shirt emblazoned with a skull, and she is always in a foul mood, believing that everything wrong in the world is the fault of a conspiracy spawned by \u201cbooger-brained boys.\u201d<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Frame 1: <\/strong>Danae stands with a smile on her face and thinks: \u201cI\u2019m in a good mood today\u2026 I wonder why?\u201d<\/li>\n<li><strong>Frame 2:<\/strong> \u201cHmmph\u2026 oh, well\u201d she says out loud, and she skips merrily down the street, passing Timmy, a boy who lives nearby.\u00a0 He turns around and says, <span style=\"color: #000080\">\u201cGeez, why\u2019re you in such a foul mood?\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li><strong>Frame 3:<\/strong> Startled, Danae asks, \u201cwhat?\u201d<span style=\"color: #000080\"> \u201cyou said \u2018hmmph\u2019\u2026\u201d <\/span>\u201cSo?\u201d\u00a0 <span style=\"color: #000080\">\u201cIt sounds cranky\u201d <\/span>\u201cdoes not\u201d <span style=\"color: #000080\">\u201cIf you say so\u2026\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li><strong>Frame 4:<\/strong> \u201cHey, I was in a GOOD mood!\u201d\u00a0 <span style=\"color: #000080\">\u201cAhh.. \u2018was\u2019\u2026 past tense\u2026\u201d <\/span>he says, turning away.\u00a0 \u201cNo\u2026 I AM IN A GOOD MOOD!!\u201d\u00a0 <span style=\"color: #000080\">\u201cThen why are you shouting??\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li><strong>Frame 5:<\/strong> <strong>\u201c\u2019CUZ NOW I\u2019M IN A BAD MOOD!\u201d <\/strong>she screams, black smoke and a death\u2019s head emerging from her mouth. And as Timmy walks away he says, <span style=\"color: #000080\">\u201cHmmph\u2026 Well, I was in a great mood \u2018til you came along\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>I love this strip, although I\u2019m sure the illustrator was not thinking of modeling ontological principles when he wrote it.\u00a0 He demonstrates first how the mood affects thinking and behavior; then how different language changes the mood and then the behavior \u2013 of both parties!<br \/>\nWho we are and how we show up is a constant dance and balancing act between what we think, the emotion we\u2019re in, and what we do.\u00a0 To live a happy life we must monitor ourselves in all three areas and recognize that even minor shifts in one can transform the other.<br \/>\nSome examples:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li> Shifting our \u201cstory\u201d about other people\u2019s motives can cause us to move from suspicion to trust to calm to worry\u2026 and how we react to those people will vary based on the mood we put ourselves in.<\/li>\n<li> Taking a few deep breaths can calm both our emotions and our thinking.<\/li>\n<li> Moving fast and getting caught up in being busy-busy-busy can shift our mood to anxiety and focuses our thinking on what\u2019s NOT done versus what we have accomplished.<\/li>\n<li> If we are \u201cfeeling good\u201d and run in to another person who\u2019s having a bad day, we can hold fast to our own mood by carefully monitoring our language to avoid picking up the conversation that other person wants to pull us into.<\/li>\n<li> Wearing a smile pulls our emotions up and opens our thinking<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>So, the answer to Which? is Yes.\u00a0 If we want to live a balanced life, then, we must attend to all three areas: the stories we tell ourselves and others, the emotions we\u2019re feeling, and how we interact with others.<br \/>\nHave a happy one; and remember that YOU are in charge of how you experience life today!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In a recent coaching teleclass a participant asked, \u201cis it our mood that creates our language, or is it the words and stories we use that create our mood?\u201d\u00a0 She was looking for a neat and crisp definition of how people work. 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