What's Love Got To Do With It?

One of my clients has been blogging her way through the coaching experience.  After years of holding all her thoughts inside, she’s discovered that writing helps her reveal herself to herself.  Recently, we revisted an old topic — ♥ self love.♥ This client (who goes by the anonymous title of Spudsie, a childhood nickname) is an animated writer, so if …

[ > Keep reading ]


Read more articles like this one in: About Happiness, Executive Coaching, Happiness, Practicing Happiness, Relationships

Mood and Language: which comes first?

In a recent coaching teleclass a participant asked, “is it our mood that creates our language, or is it the words and stories we use that create our mood?”  She was looking for a neat and crisp definition of how people work. It ain’t that simple.  Figuring out how people work is like solving the Chicken or Egg puzzle – …

[ > Keep reading ]


Read more articles like this one in: Executive Coaching, Practicing Happiness, Relationships

Nothing is Good or Bad

“…there is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.” Hamlet, Act II Scene 2 This quote from Shakespeare is one of my all-time favorites… and defines a foundational element of my coaching practice and life philosophy. Events are just events.  Stuff happens.  That’s it. THEN…we create a story to explain that event.  In our “story” we interpret …

[ > Keep reading ]


Read more articles like this one in: Executive Coaching, In the workplace, Leadership, Practicing Happiness, Relationships

Communicating Unhappy News

As more and more companies must make the difficult decision to reduce staff and send people packing, I’ve had many leaders come to me and ask for advice on what to tell people when they ask questions. When people suspect a lay off is pending, they shift into constant anxiety. Yet too many top leaders, for their own reasons, insist …

[ > Keep reading ]


Read more articles like this one in: Communication, Executive Coaching, In the workplace, Leadership

Tough Choice

I could not resist pulling this two-minute video onto my blog.  It resonated with me because, of all the leadership challenges that come up in coaching and training conversations, this is the most common area of concern (I can’t tell you more without giving away the twist). This is part of a new series of humorous looks at Crucial Conversations …

[ > Keep reading ]


Read more articles like this one in: Communication, Executive Coaching, In the workplace, Leadership

What's the Best Piece of Advice You Ever Got?

“What’s the best piece of advice you ever received?”  A TV interviewer asked this of her guest recently, and that question got me thinking about how I’d respond. My mother always used to say, “if you love what you do, you’ll never have to work a day in your life.” It took me a couple decades to figure out exactly …

[ > Keep reading ]


Read more articles like this one in: Communication, Executive Coaching, Leadership, Relationships

Are You as Happy as You Want to be?

Are you are as happy as you want to be?  Have you “succeeded” yet still find happiness elusive?  Do you sometimes feel “stuck” in your career or your life, without a clear path to what’s next for you? If those questions caused you to pause for a moment, I invite you to read on. What is Happiness, and Why Should …

[ > Keep reading ]


Read more articles like this one in: About Happiness, Communication, Executive Coaching